Love Yourself
It is absolutely essential to love yourself. But don't confuse confidence with arrogance. Loving yourself requires having a level of respect and appreciation for God's creation which is you and the people around you. When you love yourself you take care of yourself; mind body and soul.
Mind - Know who you are, where you come from and where you're going. Develop the ability to respect others yet have the courage to stand alone and not be easily influenced.
Body - Take good care of your health. Know the effects of what you're putting into your body and how it makes you feel . Exercise enough to feel good about what you see when you look in the mirror and how you feel overall.
Soul - Acknowledge the fact that there's something bigger than you and respect it!!! Life was life before you were born and life will continue after you're gone. But do you know where you're going after you've passed away? If not, I suggest you start thinking about it and prepare yourself.
Note: When you love yourself, you become loveable to others. It happens naturally
Based on my observations of a lot of cheaters over the years three main patterns have emerged. The following are the reasons why people cheat:
1 Hurt people hurt so some people feel like they better hurt you before you get the chance to hurt them and in the case of an abusive relationship some cheat to try and break away from a hurtful relationship. It's tough being lonely.
2 Controling personalities. By manipulating others some people believe that they are controlling things in a relationship when they do whatever they want regardless of their partners feelings or best interest.
3 Self centeredness, some people only care about their own self gratification. So, the more the merrier.
I am certain that there are many other reasons such as the fact that so many people knowingly allow themselves to be an active and willling participant of betraying others.
-Peace
JM