Just One Of Them Days!
Thursday, August 13, 2009
, Posted by Sandra Chat at 5:26 PM
"It's just one of them days. When I wanna be all alone. It's just one of them days. When I gotta be all alone. It's just one of them days. Don't take it personal, I just wanna be all alone and you think I treat you wrong." - Monica.
Let me first clarify that it has nothing to do with PMS because men are just as guilty.
We all have those days when we just don't want to be bothered. It may not be anything any ones' done specifically, yet saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can intensify the person's emotions which in turn will make matters worse.
Every now and then we all need our personal time and space. Time to gather our thoughts and enjoy our own company. There are other times when we may just need a break from each other and being around friends or family maybe just the remedy we need. If you see that your man or woman is brushing you off or has a slight "attitude" don't take it personal. Acknowledge the fact that your mate is having "One of them days"and give them their space.
Be careful not to take your emotions out on one another. It's not fair to your mate and it's not healthy for your relationship. When you do recognize that you're having "One of them days", try not to prolong it. Do your best to shift your energy from negative to positive. The quicker you can do this, the happier and healthier your relationship will be.
im actually havin on of those days 2day n my boyfriend was juss naggin da hell outta me 2 the point where i gave him the ok 2 move on being smart lol i played it off so well i was almost single...but as u said u cant be negative 4 long it will hurt ur relationship...so ladies...guys do wut u have 2 do n dont take things the wrong way ima bout 2 let ma boyfriend read this keep doin ya thing sandra stay REAL BOO!!!
Thanks for your comment Anonymous!
One more important bit of advice. When you do recognize that you're having one of those days, try and figure out what attracted those negative emotions and deal with it. The majority of the time you'll realize you have absolutely no reason to be upset. Sometimes we need to check ourselves!