Why Do Good Girls Love Bad Guys?
Sunday, August 16, 2009
, Posted by Sandra Chat at 6:25 PM
This questions has been around for years. There is some truth to it but also a lot of misconceptions. A man's definition of a "Bad Guy" and what a woman considers a "Bad Guy" to be are totally different.
I don't necessarily call a guy that cheats on me to be a "Bad Guy". I can call him a jerk and every other name in the book but the truth is he was probably not that into me. Otherwise he wouldn't have cheated. I would however consider a man that is dominating and both physically and mentally abusive to be a "Bad Guy".
Most women want a man that can protect them. We want a strong confident man that can hold his ground if need be and provide security for his family. This normally requires the man to be both physically and mentally equipped. In other words, "tough". This is not to be confused with a man that is "rough". "Tough" equals power where as "Rough" equals pain.
Women go after "tough" guys because they're challenging and more interesting. Tough guys are confident within themselves yet know how to treat a woman. A tough guy knows when to throw on the timberland's and when to bring out the custom made suit. A tough guy doesn't speak to his woman the same way he speaks to his friends. I can go on but I think you get the point.
If you are one of those men that constantly complain about the women you're pursuing always falling for the "bad" guys, I have a reality check for you; she's just not attracted to you. We women MUST be attracted to our men. Something about you must be stimulating enough to keep us interested. Whether its your physical appearance, sense of humor, personality or intelligence; something must be compelling about you that keeps us intrigued and coming back for more.
The bottom line is women do not love bad guys, we love tough guys! As for the women that do date "bad" guys, tune in to my next blog to get my perspective on that topic.
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