Can You Handle The Truth?
Monday, January 25, 2010
, Posted by Sandra Chat at 6:13 PM
Its all right to ask questions. After all you have the right to know. Just prepare yourself to hear the truth whether its good or bad. For example, ladies, don't ask your men whether or not you gained a little bit of weight if you know for a fact you did. You're putting him in an awkward situation. If he is the type of guy that's straight forward and says yes, you may get offended. If he's not a straight forward guy and tells you no to avoid confrontation or hurting your feelings, he's not being truly honest with you. And if he can't be honest with something as simple as that, imagine what else he's not being honest about. Men are just as guilty. For example, gentlemen, don't ask your women whether or not she thinks you are the best partner she's ever had in bed. Chances are you are not. If that's in fact the case and she tells you the truth, your manhood will be forever emasculated. If she decide not to tell you the truth, you will go on thinking you're the best thing since slice bread while she continues to Fantasize about her ex-lover. No one wins.
Its always better to know the truth but understand the truth may hurt. Next time you have a question you're absolutely dying to know the answer to, think about what the possible answers could be and brace yourself in the event that its bad.
Are there questions about your mate you really want to know but not sure you're ready for the truth? Are you the type of person that's direct or do you lie to avoid confrontation? Which do you find to be more affective, telling the truth or lying and why? Looking forward to hearing your comments.
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I how the first paragraph of this post gets STRAIGHT to the point. You were def not playing around with this one!!!
The truth is a SERIOUS thing. There are always a lot of unanswered questions in life... especially in relationships and no matter how ready we think we are to hear the truth, we always risk getting hurt by the responses to the questions we ask.
While some might say its better not to know, at the end of the day, although the truth may hurt, the truth also gives us a piece of mind, especially when deep down inside, we already know the the truth.
GREAT JOB SANDRA!!! LOVE IT!!!
Hi Mz. St3f,
Thanks for your comment . You are absolutely correct. The truth certainly does set you free. The only problem is that there are people out there who just can't handle the truth. The purpose of this blog was to help those folks acknowledge this flaw and deal with it more effectively. Thanks again for your comment. Enjoyed reading your thoughts.