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Absolutely, positively YES!! Has your mate ever said one thing but you know they meant the opposite of what they said? Have you ever asked your mate a question and they answered it with another question or gave an answer that had nothing to do with the question asked? Do you ever say to yourself "Wow, my man or woman is really crazy?"
Well, stop burdening your selves with doubt or worry because it is in fact truth; men and women speak different languages.

Its obvious that men are the simple creatures. They are normally direct in their approach. Whether its verbally or physically, their actions are typically clear. If a guy likes you, chances are you will know. He will either tell you or show you. Women on the other hand are more complicated. Our sensitive and emotional genes causes us to be more cautious with our hearts. This is why we think so much; sometimes too deep. Conflict arises in our relationships because we don't understand each other. There's nothing wrong with speaking different languages; as long as you're willing to learn, understand and appreciate your differences.

I can't speak for all women, but one thing that used to drive my husband up the wall were my mood swings. If he said or did anything to offend me in any way, my mood would change at the drop of a dime. Not sure why, I think I get that from my mama; lol,  but that's besides the point. Everything a woman does, know there's a reasoning behind every words or action.

Next time your woman has a mood swing, chances are you did something to cause that mood swing. Instead of acting nonchalant as if nothings wrong or simply ignoring her hoping that the mood swing would pass, ask her what's wrong and make a conscious effort to make things right.  I know what you're all thinking. Why not just tell him what he did wrong, right? Again, I'm a woman and we are the complicated breed so that solution would obviously be too easy.  If my man made me sad, I expect for him to figure it out and do what he needs to do to make me happy again. Period! Now this is just my story but its also an example how women think. We care about everything, it doesn't matter how small, it still matters. Nonetheless, my husband and I are still happy and in love because we took the time to learn and understand each other's languages. He knows I'm not crazy, I'm just being me.

What is it that your mate do to drive you crazy ? What do you do about it? I would love to hear your stories, thoughts and solutions. Please feel free to share with the rest of us as it will take a collaborative effort to understand the reasoning and thinking behind your mates actions and words.